Thesis of Happiness #1

So what is Happiness? We as the human race want, we desire it more then anything else in life. Not all the riches in the world can take this from us once we have gained it. Why it it so hard to gain the true happiness of this small fraction in life, well maybe it isn't small. Why is it so hard to be happy? The scholars of the world probably have debated this way before any of were even thought of. I over the years have had many times in my life when I was so unhappy and I thought back then that it was because of the rough times I was going through and all. That was so far from the truth, I was stuck in a depression mode that I did not like, I was never happy with life and myself. So it dawned on me I was not happy because I was not happy with myself. I am not saying there are not people who are not happy with themselves are are many people who have found happiness and there are people who are so unhappy it is scary. So to be really happy in life you first must be happy with yourself, but how does one become happy with themselves. That is the secret, we first have to be happy with yourselves, we must rid your thinking of self pity, negativism, and worthlessness. We have to place it with positive thinking, and if we can not replace it with all positive thoughts and thinking we will truly never find happiness. So now you are wondering I have many things going on in my life that is not making me happy, well not to be rude that is just a excuse. I have met people who were on the brink of death, there life were in mere shambles, and they told me even with all that they are happy with themselves. So you see there is nothing that can take your happiness from you. It is the one thing that you have complete control over. Do not get me wrong, there are situations in my life which I am not happy with, but I have finally found happiness with myself. So no matter what your situation is you can still control your happiness with yourself. There is nothing in this world that can take that from you. No Excuses!!!. You have to condition yourself on being happy, it is nothing that will happen over night, and it will be hard to condition yourself to gain the happiness. Once you gain this, then you will finally be happy with every aspect in your life no matter what. So do you have what it takes to condition yourself? Can you rid your life of Negativism? Can you crush the self-pity that has been hidden in your inner self for so long? Can you burn every thought of self worthlessness? Yes life is hard, and you must forget what has happen in your life no matter what it is and replace all that with positive thinking, you will be shocked what it can do for you, and it will change your life forever. You are the only one that can control this and only you can change your life and finally be happy with yourself. We can force the unhappiness out of lives once and for all, we can finally be happy if we condition yourselves. Do you want to be happy? Till next time be happy