
Do they work? That is the real question, that is what this blog is about. Let me Know what you think, what your experiences are and whatnot. Let Jale know your feelings on this subject or just your feelings on relationships in general
Well, as you all know I am back on the dating block once again going to try my luck again. As you all know I have not had much luck here in the Desert....The Land of Enchantment....I have been rejected and stood up, does that mean I am going to give up heck no. Was even told maybe I should try to date online, I have tried that in the past with little to no luck whatsoever. So someone suggested I should try a long distance relationship. Well I was a little shocked, knowing from people that this is a tough relationship to get into, then have heard people that it has worked for them. Even heard people that it got so serious that they moved to live with that person. All I can say is WOW. I also think if it works great and even if it means packing up and being with that person even though you have never met that person? Can it work? Will it Work? With anything in life there are risks to take, rivers to swim and mountains to climb, could I personally do this in my life. As a lot of debate with family and friends and a lot of thinking. I know I could do this if there was someone I was really close to, a person I could call my soulmate, my other half. In life you have to take some risks, some are bad choices and some are good choices so I could do this if I felt she was the right person for me. It will be getting out of my comfort zone, but I have always said that I strive on being out of the zone, and doing something out of the ordinary. So could you all do this, could you do something that takes you out of your comfort zone. Could you date some thousand miles away from you and if it became serious could you pack up and go live with this person.
I never thought I be the one to step out of my comfort zone when it comes to relationships, yes I have some rocky relationships, but I have also have some great ones, and I have experienced a lot in my 43 years on this great earth. I laugh when some one says they can't date that person, or they are too scared to ask them out. Come on the worse that can happen is he or she will say no. So you rinse and repeat. Life is to short to be stuck in your shell. Even though I am stuck at home besides work, doesn't mean I am dead to the world. I do get out even if it is just at Wal-Mart and working with the public it gives me the chance to meet new people even if it is for only a few minutes a night. So what you all waiting for get out and mingle, step out of your comfort zone, let no one say you cant date a certain person because they are out of your league, I have dated many women who most guys would think I would not have a chance with. Grow some balls and ask that person you have a crush on. Let no one say you can't, do ther unusual, the twisted, be yourself and let no one say you can't do anything.
Life is too short have fun at everything you do, and relationships should be fun, I have been said I am a very fun guy to be with, I am silly...so with that said I am on the block again ladies and If I think you are someoneI like to date or get to know more I will let you know and of course I will ask for your number so for some reason you get more then one email from me, that means I am interested in you and like to know you more.
Please let me know your thoughts?
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